Read Matthew 7:1-5.
Conflict is difficult to resolve when we blame the other person(s) for 100% of the problem. They may be responsible for some of it, but I have never seen only one party be fully responsible for a conflict. “It takes two to tango,” as they say. Perhaps it is better said, “It takes two to tangle.” Own up to your part of the problem.
To Consider
Have you ever been in a conflict when you realized part way through your partial guilt in it? How did owning up to your part help repair the conflict?
Are you currently experiencing a conflict? If so, take some time over the next few days to pray. Ask the Lord to reveal to you your heart condition and any actions that are unbecoming of Christ. Be prepared to hear Him bring to mind areas and activities that need His cleansing. Avoid the tendency to justify your actions and attitudes. Confess to Him your part in the conflict.